It is kinda warm and lovely to receive mail from far west Ireland especially from a bff that has been known for 21 years.
Card is meaningful, lovely and sentimental. It was my favorite for apologies, birthday and travel souvenir.
I had forgotten the hobby that I ever had till the Christmas greeting card from her.
To make a card meaningful, you have to write something on it.
Writing is a healthy activity for balance life though it is not everyone's favorite. For me, it is. I remember one of the author share that one's life need input and output to balance life.
What is input?
It could be learning or experiencing through reading, listening, and studying.
What about output?
When you learn something, you have to utilize it. You will know the knowledge you have are meaningful to life.
When you read something, you should share it. You will input more when sharing and creativity will approach you. Then you will find life is interesting.
Writing is an mind organizing exercise. With writing, you will make up your mind, clear it, and know the direction. Of course, writing allow writer to beautify the sentence before sharing in a slow pace atmosphere. Therefore, minimize the conflict and maybe enhance your life. So, I feel relax after blogging.
Okay back to topic, my bff, she is far away from me now. What she is really doing? Is she good? I have little idea only. The little thing that I know for sure is via social media FB... I forgot ever since when, we talk less. Although it sound sad, but it's true, distance kills friendship, time kills too. I guess it happen to mostly of the friendship. No matter how, I am happy and smile genuine whenever I remember her. She is the longest friendship I ever have in my life. To me, yes, the longest, but I am not sure is it the same to her. Never mind, it is not important.
Important things is we are glad to have each other. Appreciate the time we talk nonsense on phone for hours costly for parent, we hang out for nothing especially overnight at her house. We talk forever although only two of us. Dreams, future, boys, blah blah blah.
Not sure is it happen to you. I don't talk much now. Especially colleagues, or just normal friend. The atmosphere is fine when the conversation is conducted by more than 2 persons. But, whenever is just two person, I feel tension and lack of topics to share. Awkward situation will then happen. Not sure is it due to my bad expression skill or due to lacking of knowledge. I really don't like to hang out now.
She is coming back Malaysia by next year for a month I guess. So, it is kinda excited for me to meet up. The gathering more or less must be Elaine, Emma and me. Glad that we are still friends.
Emma, see you soon.
Merry Christmas and Happy New Year
